Different types of people come to our lives…one is that person that we first loved, first kissed, whom we thought we will give everything and whom we thought would be the last. Another one is that person whom we consider as our knight in shining armor for coming into our life just on time, whom we can put on a pedestal but like the first one, it got away. Another one is that person who seems so perfect, seems so right, seems so ideal, nothing is wrong with the combination, no flaw with the friendship…only that the cards didn’t fall into its right place…and like the first two, it also got away.
We will never know which one will come back first; we will never know if one of them will return, we will never know if one of them is right….because we will never know unless the right one comes. And that right person may not be one of them. Another person might enter your life and it is your choice to consider him/ her as a passer by or a main stay.
It is our choice. Life is full of choices and it depends on us on how we choose. Destiny has nothing to do with life because we make our own destiny. Destiny is defeated when we make our choice. Destiny is defeated when we choose what we know is right and would make us happy. Destiny is defeated if we just try to.
Life is not about cowardice. It is about gathering up all our strength and face life with full armor and courage, that no matter how hard the choices are, we could still come up with the right one.
Our choice for life and love will make our destiny. At the end of the day, we will realize that you could blame no one for loosing a certain person but yourself, you could blame no one for being so stupid and blind but yourself, you could blame no one for being so hard headed but yourself…our life lies on how we deal with it. We make our own life. We were given our own hearts and minds so we can think of life’s choices and choose who to love.
It depends on us on how we use our heart and our mind wisely.
So, it won’t matter if there’ll be three or four or twenty persons who will knock on our hearts. It is our choice. We are to choose that person whom we love and could love us in return. It is not just counting bettle cars and that the color of the 50th bettle car would be the color of the shirt of the first guy who will speak to you and he would be your soul mate…its not about that guy who first smiled at you in school or that guy who uttered words you’ve wanted to hear or that guy who borrowed your notebook or someone you met at the ice cream stand. It’s not about signs. It’s about realism.
Life is not a movie. It is just “like” a movie. The difference is, we are the ones to direct our actions and not another person. Remember: We are on the driver’s seat…we choose which road to take.
We have a direct hold on our lives. Live it wisely. Live it right…and always choose to be happy.
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